Blinded by love?
January 13, 2007They say love is blind … but my question is, " Can love render a man blind?" For it seems that I have been so fixiated to one girl and one girl only these past few months… Have I been blinded by my love for her? Sure I get attracted to other girls thats for sure. I got lots of female friends… close friends. The one I call my best friend is a girl whom I seldom see… (sigh, missed you my dear….).. But, the closest I can treat them is as a friends… except for one… I treat her as my sister (which I never had)…
Letting go was not as hard as this for me before… I wanted to see her everyday … I wanted to talk to her… hear her sweet voice again…. but what can I do? She doesn't feel like talking to me anymore…. yet …
Oh well I got a gazillion questions in my mind right now… ( considering If i could count that high ….) But One question stands out … Have I been blinded by love?
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Trish, heheh. Actually I think I need to wear my glasses again hehehe.
“FreaK Stalker”– yeah… I wanted to stalk her everyday .. heheh.. But I know its not going to do any good with her… I’ll bid my time … they say patience is one of my strengths …
Posted by thebestgirl at January 15, 2007, 8:26 pmbid your time in stalking her?! 
hehehe..just testing you bro 
*sigh* ain’t love so complicated?! it’s an endless debate, really 
John, this is not love. This is DESPERATION, ATTACHMENT and SELFISHNESS rolled into one. Because TRUE LOVE is liberating. Not just for her but for yourself as well. Be free. Move on. Explore new things and leave old things behind. Don’t carry them around as baggage. Learn from them. Be happy on your own and love yourself. You can do it!
Posted by Sexy Nomad at January 17, 2007, 9:47 pmJen, again you can see me right through… and your words are like words of an angel to me.
I recently lost my cellphone which holds a lot of memories of her ( walang scandalous pix dun ha! heheh). Her very first text message that says she loves and other sweet messages from her that I always read whenever I’m alone.
But loosing it somehow tells me that it’s time to let go for now. And your words just confirmed it. But I’m not and will not be able to replace as easily as my lost cellphone.
And I guess I’m trying to enjoy my free time now with my “little sis” and other friends. It’s the time that I was suppose to give to her. But even without her, I’m still keeping those time open. but since she’s not here and my “little sis” is… 
John, you’re right…losing your cellphone is life’s way of telling you to move on… Once you really let go, better things are bound to happen. You’ll see… I’m excited for you.
well I think, if you feel that there’s still a chance for the two of you, there’s nothing you can do by just simply posting all your emotions toward her on the internet. Why don’t you do something about it, go and reach out to her, if you can win her back, never let go of her again. But then, if it’s clear enough that she’s not into you anymore… C’mon honey, MOVE ON!!! Be mature enough to face your tragic love story then…
Remember, if you lost something it’s because God wants you to pick up something much better…. could it be the latest model celfone… or me…! (you only got 5seconds to make a choice.) 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. times up…!!!
Go Bro ! go for it. time to let go and move on… i did he he he … its scary at first but u can get use to it…. its like riding the river rapids …
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john..u need new glasses! hehehe..jk..
that’s what you call - TRUE LOVE CALLING
been in that situation once, and it felt like im a freak stalker! huhuhu
Posted by trish at January 14, 2007, 1:35 pm